Syren De Mer Interview: She’s Cougarlicious

Captain Jack interviews Syren De Mer

Syren De Mer has been in the industry for a while now and I’ve always enjoyed her work. But I recently saw her in a couple different titles that I was very impressed with her anal abilities. She’s always been good but I thought she took it up to another level, at least from the scenes I’ve viewed. I am now in search of more content from her! LOL. Syren is a sexy cougar and I was even more impressed when I found out her age! She has a fantastic body and a great body and let’s have Syren take us on her sexual journey!

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Captain Jack: Tell me about Syren De Mer. Tell me about yourself. Some background info and how you made the plunge into porn?

Syren De Mer: I guess you could say I hit my prime and the opportunity presented itself, so I took it. A little background, my husband and myself used to be in the swingers lifestyle. We would go to parties here and there but we would host several gang bangs for our pleasure. We had been doing that for several years. Also, I had a history of modeling, mainstream and runway modeling, when I was younger. My husband had come across a magazine ad looking for sexy MILF’s for a spread. They were looking for an everyday mom and my husband asked me about it and I said, “Sure, that sounds like fun!” So went sent pictures out but never heard back and they never got published. So, then we decided to get a website going to get me back into mainstream modeling. We were still swinging and we had a couple of Yahoo groups so we could chat with other partygoers. We were going to keep the two separate and do some modeling. A few months later, Seymour Butts had come across my pictures and found out how to contact me and asked me if I was interested in getting into porn and signing with his agency. I figured I was already swinging and I was already fucking all the time, why not take it a step further? So I signed with his agency and have never looked back.

CJ: When you started filming, I’m sure it was a little different than just doing a gangbang in your personal life, was it intimidating?

Syren: It came naturally to me because we were photographing our parties. So a film camera isn’t really any different than a digital camera.

CJ: Did you watch porn before you joined the industry?

Syren: Every once in awhile, yes, but it was almost a rarity. I didn’t watch a whole lot.

CJ: I don’t think this is a secret, but according to IAFD, you were born in 1969. Is that correct? Are you 44? You are in tremendous shape!

Syren: Yes, I’m 44. Thank you, I was born in 1969, 3 weeks before the moon landing!

CJ: Do you have a workout regimen to stay in such good shape?

Syren: I fuck for a living. (laughs) Other than that, no, I really don’t. I eat like crap and I don’t really exercise. I have very good genes. I may not be that healthy of an eater, but I watch my calorie intake.

CJ: How long do you go down to LA to shoot?

Syren: There are times where I go down once a week. There are other times where I don’t travel for 4 or 5 weeks. It really varies. And it’s not just LA where I shot, I also film for companies in Vegas and San Francisco.

CJ: You film for Kink. Are you dominant or submissive?

Syren: Submissive. I do have one director that is trying to put me in a dominant role. But, generally, for any fetish or lifestyle shoot in the BDSM community, I am definitely submissive.

CJ: What’s your favorite position?

Syren: I like to keep it varied. (laughs) I have lots of favorites, actually every position is a favorite. (laughs) Probably the easiest position for me to orgasm in is missionary. Doggie’s great so that a guy can grab ahold of your hips and just pound away. Or he can choke you! And then there’s cowgirl and reverse!

CJ: Do you have any favorite scenes that you’ve shot?

Syren: It changes! There’s something about every scene. It’s fluid because I could have just had a powerful orgasm in my last scene and that’s my current favorite!

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CJ: When you first work with someone new, do you talk to them and find out what he or she likes or don’t likes?

Syren: Yes. It’s a little more relaxed in a boy/girl or a boy/girl anal. You just kind of go through, “OK, my nipples are sensitive but I’m cool with kissing and spanking and pull my hair.” When it comes to the bondage scenes, you have to be more detailed.

CJ: What’s something that you like, what really gets you off?

Syren: I really like breath play. And spanking. Spanking gets me really wet actually.

CJ: How often do you cum during a scene?

Syren: That varies. Sometimes once; sometimes five or six times! As I get older and I get out of my dirty 30’s and into my crazy, nympho 40’s, I actually have different orgasms now. I still have my really big intense ones but now I have other ones that kind of sneak up on me. It’s an adrenaline rush and it surprises me. I’m like, “Wow! Those are new!” (laughs)

CJ: What’s the most uncomfortable place you’ve had sex?

Syren: On a kitchen counter underneath the cabinets. (laughs)

CJ: You’ve been married for a while, how does your husband handle your career?

Syren: Well he got me into it! (laughs) He’s all cool with it. It’s part of his foreplay, watching me with another man. It’s personal porn for him, I guess.

CJ: Most couples come home after work and they discuss their day. Do you come home and say, “Oh, honey! I just had the biggest cock ever today! I came 6 times!”

Syren: (laughs) Yes. After my scenes, I’ll call him and tell him the premise of the storyline and tell him the positions. And tell him, “It was so cool! We had so much fun!”

CJ: Does he watch your scenes?

Syren: He watches every once in a while. I don’t. I’m very critical of myself. I’m a perfectionist and I know if I watch them, I’ll pick myself apart. I’ll watch the trailers. And I’ll watch the dialogue so I can improve as an actor.

CJ: Does your husband jerk off to your scenes?

Syren: Yes, he jerks off to them. (laughs)

CJ: You said you shoot sporadically so when you get back home, do you just jump on him? How often do you have sex off camera?

Syren: That will vary depending on life and kids. Sometimes it’s every other day, sometimes it’s once a week, sometimes, especially during the holidays, it’s like once a month. But we do go at it as often as we can.

CJ: Are you still in the swinging lifestyle?

Syren: No, the more I travel, the harder it was to plan these parties. My last gang bang was on my 40th birthday.

CJ: Nice birthday present!

Syren: Yes it was! (laughs)

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CJ: I’ve seen you mostly in boy/girl scenes but you’ve done some girl/girl. Are you into girls?

Syren: I love girls.

CJ: When was your first experience with a girl?

Syren: When I was 21.

CJ: Is there a good story behind it?

Syren: It was a girl I worked with and one New Year’s Eve, we decided to go out. We had become pretty good friends and my boyfriend at the time was a bouncer at a club. So I always went to the clubs that he was working at. And we enjoyed New Year’s Eve and all three of us ended up going back to his place. It was very impromptu. Nothing was said, it just kind of happened. It was very experimental. She had never been with a girl either. We had fun! My boyfriend sat and watched for a little bit then he joined in. (laughs)

CJ: When did you lose your virginity then? When was this sexual dynamo unleashed?

Syren: I was almost 17. But I was extremely promiscuous before then. I just didn’t go all the way. First base, second base, third base, I just never allowed them to go home! (laughs) I was 5 years old and was caught kissing in the back of the school bus. Making out with my neighbor boy when I was 8 or 9. My first boy-girl party was at 10. It kind of escalated from there. A lot of blowjobs. I lost my virginity and I literally did anal in my first year. I was naughty but nice.

CJ: Speaking of anal, I recently saw you in two scenes that were outstanding… Anal Mother Fucker 2 and Lisa Ann’s Black Out.

Syren: Thank you. When you become friends with co-stars, it really shows through. Prince and I had done quite a few scenes before that and we’ve also got an extremely close friendship. And Lisa Ann and myself are also close friends. So the three of us really like each other and respect each other. The chemistry just shined through in that one!

CJ: You’ve been in it for a while now, what do you think are some of the biggest misconceptions in the industry?

Syren: That we make a lot of money. (laughs) People think we make as much as mainstream actors do. They think we make royalties from the scenes. People don’t think that porn is a business. It is a multi-million dollar business. It’s a hell of a lot of fun but it’s still a business. They also think we’re dirty. I consider adult the safest people on the planet because we get tested every two weeks.

CJ: Was it an advantage getting into the industry at a later date as opposed to 18 or 19?

Syren: If I had entered this world when I was younger and was more naïve on life in general, maybe I wouldn’t be here today. But I think since I went into it so late in life and had maturity behind me, nothing has surprised me. I knew about my body. What men like, what men don’t like. Even the business side of it, I understood. Also, a woman is never totally comfortable with her body until later in life. I never liked my thighs, I always thought they were too big. I thought I had a big butt. I loved my stomach, my abs, my upper body, my small boobs but I was never comfortable with my lower body. But when you get older, you start appreciating your body. You get into your prime and you feel sexy. It was perfect timing when I got into the industry.

CJ: You mentioned your small boobs before, how small were they?

Syren: Small B.

CJ: What are you now?

Syren: A D. Just one surgery, a fantastic surgeon.

CJ: When a guy pops, where do you prefer it?

Syren: Creampies are really cool because you can actually feel the penis pulsate. I can sometimes cum just from that sensation. But I have to say I like the popshot on my face and in my mouth because then I can taste it.

CJ: So you like swallowing then?

Syren: I always swallow. That’s how I was taught. I had a guy teach me and he didn’t say spit it out! (laughs)

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CJ: Have you always had that big, round ass?

Syren: Always.

CJ: But you said you didn’t like it.

Syren: Nope. I hated it. I knew I wasn’t fat. I was 18 years old just out of high school, I had a 24” waist so I knew I wasn’t fat. But my hips were really wide and because I had such a tiny waist, it accentuated my hips and made it look bigger than it actually was. And I hated it. But now? I love it! (laughs)

CJ: You have a great gape. Has it always been that way? Or is it a porn thing?

Syren: Well, the more you do anal, the more it gapes. (laughs) My personal anal experiences have just been here and there and sporadic until I got into porn. I’m kind of known for my anal so my body just does it. There’s a way to make your gapes bigger and I don’t even have to do that. My body has a life of its own.

CJ: What’s the difference between an anal orgasm and a vaginal orgasm?

Syren: With anal, I still have to have clit stimulation or g-spot stimulation because there’s no there’s no other way to orgasm. But anal orgasms are more intense because that’s because anal sex itself is deeper and a more intense feeling. They’re actually bigger and make my toes curl up.

CJ: You also give sloppy blowjobs.

Syren: (laughs) The more I give blowjobs, the more I drool. It’s kind of a weird thing, I don’t know if it’s normal. (laughs) I’ve been giving blowjobs since I was a teenager. Of course, you build up saliva but was never really a drooler. Even when my husband and I would play in the BDSM lifestyle and I had a gag in my mouth, I would be very embarrassed when I would start drooling. Now? I end up with a puddle between my legs. I would say the spitting on the cock and the excessive drooling, all that comes from deep throating because saliva builds up. But I don’t think very many people in their personal life are like, “Oooh, hey, baby, let me spit on your cock.” It’s a porn thing but it is kind of hot to watch.

CJ: Did I recently hear on Twitter that you did a double anal?

Syren: (laughs) I have now shot for Kink a year ago September. I have 10 or 12 scenes already and they have popped a lot of cherries. Double vag, double anal, fisting and serveral other things. My first double anal was for my first hard core gang bang for Princess Donna. That was shot and  released about a year ago.

CJ: What’s your ultimate sexual fantasy and do you want to live it out on camera?

Syren: I’ve lived almost all of my fantasies out. That’s where porn is great because you can fulfill your fantasies. (laughs) This is going to show how slutty I am, the one fantasy I have that has yet to come true is having me tied up on a bed and just have guy after guy after guy after guy after guy fuck me and cum on me or in me and just leave. And then the next one and the next one and the next one.

CJ: All your holes?

Syren: Actually it could be any hole but air tight would be better. (laughs)

CJ: You’re extremely hot and comfortable with your sexuality. Have you ever used your looks or your body to gain special favors?

Syren: No. I’m actually pretty quiet and kind of shy in my personal life.

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CJ: What advice would you give to someone who wants to enter the industry?

Syren: Stay true to yourself, keep your eyes open and be careful of those who will try to take advantage of you?

CJ: What does the future hold for Syren?

Syren: I don’t plan on retiring. As long as I have fans and I have people who book me, I’ll keep going. I mean look at Nina Hartley. She’s my ultimate idol.

CJ: Any upcoming scenes that we should keep an eye out for?

Syren: I have a couple more segments coming out for Public Disgrace for Kink should be out soon. I’m shooting for Naughty America this week. A lot of different things going on.

CJ: How can the fans get ahold of you?

Syren: On Twitter, I’m @SyrenDeMerXXX. Facebook is My website is

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  1. Everyone has a “type” in their personal life and you match it . I normally
    Would never dream of being a fan of a lady in your business
    My sex life is very good so it’s not about sex because there are lots of girls out there but you just seem like a really nice woman
    If I met you I’d have a million questions about your take on life in general
    Your business separates you from a lot of society but three things I’d be curious about
    First I think porn decreases cheating ( my old girlfriend showed me porn for the first time and it helped us)second do people privately tell you they envy your lack of inhibition and third honestly don’t girls find it almost impossible to enjoy on camera sex? It has to be a job and the more you have to pretend to be loving it the less you can relax and trust and enjoy your partner. Girls tell me they do not really get excited till they feel secure with a man.
    And yes I like to see you have sex but like others who write you you seem normal and have a life . John

  2. I would be interested to know how Ms. De Mer got that scar on her lower abdomen, if it’s not to personal.

  3. Syren is a bombshell! She may be too old for these young squirts out there-but take my word for it, she is woman enough for any guy who loves striking women and gorgeous companion. She is highly talented, I saw it in some of her videos. Absolutely wonderful. She should be considered for at least “B” movies! She is real top notch and I love this lady. She is Dynamite.

    With Syren and Zoey Holloway they would be super good together in a standard movie. I am talking good talent. They are naturals and just being themselves is good enough because I know they would capture the audience with their acting abilities…

    Craig Yamauchi

  4. Fantastic lady! wish I was there. I may be too old to cut the mustard but I can always lick the jar! Absolutely amazing woman. I love this woman!

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