Romi Rain Interview

Captain Jack interviews Romi Rain

I had a chance to talk with Romi recently. She has an effervescent personality that just draws you in. We talked for well over an hour about everything from her start in the industry to what she hopes to accomplish in the future. Romi is a very open person and can be a goofball when she’s not letting the world see her sexual prowess!

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Captain Jack: Tell me about Romi Rain. What kind of girl were you growing up, family life, etc.

Romi Rain: I was born in Boston, January 12, 1988. I have no idea why I was born in the winter time because I’m so anti-cold. I can’t survive under 60 degree weather! But I love my hometown and miss the people very much! I grew up mostly in Dorchester and I lived all around Massachusetts. I’m a city girl but I’m pretty relaxed. Throughout school, I was a dork. I always had big boobs but I never really grew into being as attractive as my mother. I was a goofball. I got detention all the time for goofing off in class. As soon as I turned 18, I moved to Los Angeles.

CJ: So when you moved to LA, what kind of work did you do?

Romi: At first, I was a hostess at a steakhouse. I worked at Chili’s, I worked at Jet’s. It was relatively kind of normal, I was kind of checking everything out. I was very excited to be on my own. I worked at a few jobs at restaurants because that’s what I was used to but then when I was 19, I started exotic dancing. I did that off-and-on until I was 21. I worked bottle service at some clubs then I got into web camming and nude modeling. I also was one of those models you see at trade shows before I got into porn.

CJ: How did you make the jump into porn then?

Romi: Well it was always in the back of my mind. I was always very curious. I was lucky in that the household I grew up in, sex wasn’t considered taboo. Everyone talks about it and they don’t consider anything wrong with being gay or bi. My mother never shamed it; my whole family was pretty cool. My mom definitely wasn’t worried about it. I’m bisexual and it was very easy telling my mother that. I think my mother would prefer if I was with a girl at the end of the day. (laughs) So I’ve always been very sexually open and very curious. I’ve always been kind of hyper-sexual but I never really slept around too much with absolute strangers. I was never the kind of person to pick somebody up. So, how did I get into it, I was cocktailing and dancing and I was always very interested in it. I was dancing in Los Angeles under the name Rain, that’s where I got the last name from. I was dancing for a few years and my style was a little bit more burlesque. I’m a big fan of the tease and playing around and having a good time. I hopped around a little bit and explored LA and did some modeling here and there. I did some glamour stuff, some nude stuff and I was always more comfortable going nude and sexy and erotic. I wanted to push my boundaries and satisfy my curiosity. So, I did some stuff for Playboy and did a few of their parties. I wasn’t in the magazine but I was in some Special Editions. So I started webcamming for Playboy Live. I had too many tattoos for the magazine but they thought I’d fit on Playboy Live. It was kind of a combination of modeling and stripping. It was pretty exciting without being dark exciting. I was getting off on it and seriously thought about getting into the adult industry. I also posed for Hustler Magazine during this time. Not on the cover but I had a 6-page pictorial in the February 2013 issue. But I wanted to make sure that I was into it and I liked it and it was on my own terms. I know people go in-and-out of the industry and I didn’t want to do that. I started doing some girl/girl stuff on my webcam and I was very comfortable with solo masturbation and girl/girl scenes. So my thing is, I think of a big decision for months and months then I wake up one day and go for it. So that’s what I did.

I remember my best friend, who’s not in porn but is still my best friend, we would hike Runyon Canyon and I would tell her my porn ideas and about getting into the industry. And then 6 months later, I decided to do it. I did some research on some agencies. I really like 101, they’re not really pushy or rude and never made me feel weird or skeevy. And I remember going in and telling them that I thought about this for a long while. I was 24, a year ago, when I joined the adult industry, I’m going to be in it to win it. I wanted to put my all into it and make this a career. I pride myself on being a professional and this being a job. And I thoroughly enjoy it because I’m getting off in the process. I started in October of last year and started doing boy/girl in February. I dipped my toes in the water with girl/girl for the first 4-5 months. I worked for Naughty America for my first boy/girl and then with Brazzers the next day for my second boy/girl and I just remember having such a fantastic time. When I flew back to LA from Vegas from the Brazzers shoot, I remember thinking, “I can do this! I can get into this and really have a good time and see where it goes!” And it’s been that way ever since! I’m focusing on the work and myself. I tell people that I’m the most happy and healthy and content that I’ve ever been in my adult life. I take vitamins every day and hit the gym 5 days a week. I just want to have some great sex and get off while other people get off watching me get off.

CJ: The Naughty America scene, was that Naughty Office 32? Because I just saw that but haven’t put up the review yet.

Romi: Yes, it was Naughty Office with Alan Stafford and the Brazzers scene was “Mad Muff”, a take-off on Mad Men. It was with Johnny Sins and they were shot within a few days of each other. I almost consider them both my first.

CJ: Your mother was in Hustler, so is she ok with what you’re doing?

Romi: Yeah, she’s pretty ok with it. She was never a porn star and never did anything too crazy. She wasn’t super excited about it, that’d be a little bit odd if my mother was high five-ing me. But she loves me. I’m her only kid. When I sit down and chat with her, she acts like it’s the first time she’s hearing about it. But she’s awesome. She gives me shit sometimes. But I told her if I ever win anything or get accolades, I will publicly apologize.

CJ: So were you really nervous when you first started shooting?

Romi: To be honest, I think I was a little more nervous when I shot my first solo. It gets just a little bit more odd for me when I’m by myself. It can be really gratifying because I can have a quick orgasm when I do solo scenes. I think I was nervous because that was my first porno scene ever. I remember one of my first solos, I was in the backseat of a taxicab. And it was a real taxicab so that was kind of a trip! In that situation I was more nervous than when I was on set. I think I got lucky with my first scene partners in Alan and Johnny were very sweet and very professional. They knew it was my first scenes and everyone on set was really cool. I was honestly very excited about it once I showed up on set.

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CJ: Now that you’ve been in it for a year, is there anyone you want to work with that you haven’t had a chance to yet?

Romi: Oh gosh, there’s too many to name and I don’t want to leave anyone out. There’s almost nobody that I don’t want to work with that I haven’t yet. I’m always very curious in that sense. Everybody has sex and touches you very differently and I’m always anxious to get touched in new and exciting ways. Like I said, I do enjoy both males and females and sometimes both at the same time can be really great. So as long as they’re beautiful and nice and want to have good sex with me, I’m all about it. A good attitude, in all honesty, is the most attractive thing to me. If you come on set and smile and hug me immediately, then I’m like, “Awesome, we’re going to have some great sex!”

CJ: What’s your favorite position?

Romi: I like doggie. People always say it’s impersonal but not necessarily. Doggie can actually be very intense and very connected. Doggie enables you to get deep penetration, it can be rough, it can be wild. And good old fashioned missionary feels very good. You can fuck a girl very deep, very hard, very slow. And I can sometimes squirt in that position if I’m in the right angle and it’s hard enough. Unfortunately, I’m not a girl who can squirt on command every time but in certain positions, I’m surprised at what can happen.

CJ: Do you have a favorite scene so far?

Romi: I don’t think I necessarily have a favorite. I think in all honesty they keep getting better. Not even necessarily “I look great!” but “wow, that felt really great!” I want to do that again and I’m exhausted and sweaty! I’ll probably have a new favorite tomorrow. I feel like my fans or anybody who watches would be able to tell the scenes that were extra enjoyable. And I think a lot of that has to do with chemistry. You never really know sometimes until you’re in the middle of having wild sex with someone. I can honestly say, knock on wood, that there have been very, very few days that I wasn’t satisfied or happy with what just took place.

CJ: So you cum in most every scene then?

Romi: Oh, yes. I’m actually not a faker. Sometimes it’s almost slightly embarrassing. I’ve caught myself a couple times in the middle of a scene, getting fucked and having an orgasm and I can feel myself doing silly things like twitching around or making a really weird face. But for me, I’d rather it be that way because it’s real. I always say that a woman doesn’t necessarily look very pretty, by definition, when she’s having an orgasm. I shake and I yell and grit my teeth and ball my fists. Yeah, if you see that happening, I’m probably having a real orgasm. (laughs) I’ve actually never said this before, especially not in an interview, but I’m one of those rare girls that actually cums a lot more from penetration than clitoral. When people rub and attack my clit, like I’m not a big fan of crazy toys like the Hitachi, that’s too strong, I get very sensitive because I’m relatively sensitive sexually. I think that’s why I really, really enjoy my job. I love the clitoral stimulation orgasm but, in general, I can have multiples if I’m being fucked really good. When you hear that weird high-pitched stuff and the shaking and the quivering and all that, yeah, I’m in heaven.

CJ: I’m one of those that enjoys the real sex. I know some girls need to be touched up 10 times during a scene, but I love it when the make-up starts running and she turns away from the camera, it’s honest and true and you know the girl is really into it. I like that.

Romi: I think so too! Sometimes I wish I didn’t look like such a mess but I know I’m definitely one of those girls that do that. I can look really pretty before a scene but I know my make-up is going to smear and run. (laughs) You might have seen this, but in a few scenes, I actually rip off my false eyelashes because they were starting to come off and I’m like, “fuck this!” I agree with you, it’s about the passion and the intensity and the being in the moment! I probably enjoy the sex a little bit too much but I’m single right now so I always say that’s how I get most of my jollies. I’m usually horny when I’m going into set, I’m not getting it at home. So you’re going to get it, mister!

CJ: Damn, you’re getting me horny here just talking about it.

Romi: (laughs)

CJ: I think one of your best scenes was with Toni Ribas in Oil Overload 9.

Romi: Thank you so much. That’s probably one of my recent favorites. A lot of people have really liked that. That’s exactly what we were talking about. It was very intense and wild. I think I rolled onto set very aggressive and horny that day. Toni was great and Chris Streams the director was awesome. We went with it. I was in my garters and my leopard bra. Sometimes in those moments you just really feel it. It went really well. I had an amazing time. It doesn’t always have to wild and aggressive and dirty with me but that kind of situation can just be magic. I left puddles by the end of it as I’m sure you could tell.

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CJ: When you first work with someone new, do you talk to them and find out what he or she likes or don’t likes?

Romi: I actually do, I’ve done that from the beginning. I started with girls so I thought that was a nice way to ease into it. Because I do like girls and I reiterate that because I have no problems attacking a young lady. (laughs) Sometimes it’s just polite to ask. You don’t have to go into exactly what we’re going to do in a scene because it’s nice when you can do something organically. But I definitely always ask. “What do you like especially, because I’ll try to do that. Is there something you don’t you like?” Some people, you know, don’t like to be spit on or you don’t want to slap them too hard or aggressively finger them…Everyone is a little bit different. So, yeah, I think that’s important. Guys are different. Most guys will say, “do whatever you want to me.” OKaaaaay. (laughs) With females, definitely. I think it’s just kind of a polite thing. It brings more of a connection, we’re here together, we’re both here to do a really good scene and, hopefully, we both get off. So the more relaxed and excited you are, the better. It’s good, it’s about being pleasant too. Hey, we’re about to have some sex, let’s get to know each other a little bit.

CJ: So what exactly do you like? What gets Romi off?

Romi: I’m one of those people that say there’s not very much you can’t do to me. I feel like I’ve been discovering a little bit about myself. I realize that I can get a little bit more aggressive than I thought. Not always, but in more and more scenes, like Oil Overload you mentioned, I can really get off the more wild and intense it gets. You can grab me a little bit and slap me a little bit. Throw me up against the wall, that can be really fun. But at the same time, I like it when it’s tender and sweet with real touching and eye contact. It just comes down to personal chemistry. I’ve done some awesome scenes where it’s been really, really sweet and almost in the love making style. And I had a really great time! Just like I have a really good time if I get slapped around and spit all over somebody. Honestly, if you were asking me, what can you do what can’t you do, I would say you can do anything you want to me except sticking things in my butt. But if you notice in some of my scenes, there’s a finger or two in my butt every so often. It’s kind of a heat of the moment thing. So I would say as long as you’re not trying to stick your dick in my butt uninvited, it’s all good, let’s have some fun.

CJ: Well, as long as you brought it up. Is anal off the table? Or are you ever going to try it?

Romi: I have had plenty of anal sex in my life and it’s been fun. I’ve had a few relationships where anal was always on the menu, like we would have anal sex at least once a week. I guess I prefer vaginal because I can get off real easily on vaginal sex. Alright, I will do anal on camera at some point. It’s not going to be tomorrow and I’m not sure when exactly it will be….But I have no plans on going anywhere so in due time. I promise, in due time.

CJ: How many tattoos do you have?

Romi: I have a lucky cat on my left wrist. I have cherries that go into an eternity vine on my right wrist. I have 4 paw prints on my leg, 3 stars behind my right ear. And almost my entire back is covered. So I think 5, if you count the back tattoo as one.

CJ: How long have you been working on your back?

Romi: Too long! I got my first tattoo at 18 which was the paw prints and at about 21 I started on my back. I have about 60 hours put in so far on my back. And I still have 10-12 more. It’s still unfinished but 10 is a very high number. It hurts, so I’ll sit for two hours and I’m going home.

CJ: Are you done? Or will there be more to go?

Romi: I haven’t gotten a new tattoo in a few years besides working on my back. I won’t say I’ll never get another tattoo but I have no immediate plans. I don’t think I’d ever get sleeves though, personally, I don’t think I could pull it off. I have broad shoulders, I think it would make me look bigger or something. I can pull off the back tattoo but I don’t know if I’m cool enough to pull off sleeves.

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CJ: Is it weird having sex with older men?

Romi: Not really. I’ve never looked somebody up and said, “Eww, grandpa.” (laughs) I’ve always dated a little older regardless. So it’s never really been a thought in my mind, luckily. I’m 25 so I’m not exactly a little baby anyways. It’s not like I’m 18 or something. But no, usually the men I date are in their 30s or early 40s.

CJ: What’s the most uncomfortable place you’ve had sex?

Romi: Stairs aren’t too comfortable if they’re marble. Kitchen floors aren’t too great. And I’ve had a lot of desk sex and that can be great but in certain positions are just terrible. If you’re wearing stockings in reverse cowgirl, you can slip off. Or hurt your knees in doggie. So anywhere with too hard a surface can be difficult. Not to say they can’t be pleasurable though! (laughs) I did have sex in a jeep with the top up once and that was very uncomfortable. I was all bruised and banged up. So maybe that.

CJ: Was that on camera or off?

Romi: Off (laughs)

CJ: Any bad experiences so far?

Romi: No, not really. I’ve had very little to complain about in the grand scheme of things. But I think it has to do with attitude. If I come in with a good attitude and feel good and excited to do my job and not trying to rush out of there, it’s all good.

CJ: Do you watch your own scenes?

Romi: Not really. At first it was a little awkward because you’re seeing yourself so up close. As a female, “oooh, that’s an awfully zoomed in picture!” (laughs) I do definitely watch trailers because I like to see how something turned out. I usually see something in every scene, at least a few minutes. But I try not to sit there and stare at myself because I don’t want to take myself out of the moment. I don’t want to be too insecure about something I’m doing. I think it’s more important to be there in the moment.

CJ: How often do you masturbate?

Romi: I don’t have to do that too much anymore, which is awesome. I probably just masturbate a couple times a week. I feel like if I’m not sweaty and exhausted and have a few orgasms after a scene, then I probably didn’t do my job. And if I’m exhausted after a scene, I’m ready for bed. I want some food and I’m going to sleep because I’m a happy girl.

CJ: You said you’re not with anyone right now so how often do you have sex off camera?

Romi: Not too often. Actually, in all honesty, I haven’t had a little sex buddy in a half-second. I rarely have sex off camera right now. Why would I go out and look for someone if I can get my rocks off at work! I’m not really looking, if somebody comes along, that would be awesome. But I’m having a really good time in my life so there’s no reason to change anything!

CJ: When a guy pops, where do you prefer it?

Romi: If I’m dating them, I really like if they cum inside me. Even on camera sometimes but creampies aren’t what they usually go for. I really like it if a man I’m with off-camera cums inside me because it’s a lot more intense and passionate. When you’re fucking a girl and you cum, as a girl you can feel that and I think that’s pretty erotic. On camera, facials are a lot of fun because you can play games. I play with it on my face and think of some really funny or cheesy or dark closing statement when I’m looking at the camera with cum on my face. That can be fun for just being a dark, silly little whore.

CJ: You’re getting me worked up here.

Romi: (laughs)

CJ: So do you like swallowing?

Romi: Yes I do. I have no problem with that. Usually, you taste it before the guy actually pops, you’re tasting his or her essence the entire time. So having someone’s cum in your mouth is fun, it’s like, “so this is what you actually taste like!” I did a scene earlier today with a girl and I was making her cum with my hands and toys and fingering her and as it got towards the end of it, I went down on her. I feel like that’s way hotter! You can really taste the girl’s essence. I had a good day! (laughs)

CJ: It was in Innocent Until Proven Filthy 11 with Everard where he was about to cum and you just grabbed him and put him in your mouth. You swallowed it straight down without even showing it off.

Romi: Yes, that was my 4th boy/girl scene. They were laughing about it. They said they didn’t see it but it was hot. We were chatting earlier in the scene about it. I told them I’d taste it, I’m not afraid of it! Yeah, so I went for it! (laughs) I think that intensified his orgasm too!

CJ: Speaking of blowjobs, you give some of the most amazing sloppy blowjobs. I’ve seen American Cocksucking Sluts 3 and I’ll be seeing Sloppy Head pretty soon. Is that something you learned in porn, or have you done that all your life?

Romi: I’m a messy little girl. I’ve been less self-conscience with it. At first, I put that out there, asked if they were ok with spit. I tell them I can get a little sloppy with spit sometimes. Men seem to enjoy it. I’ve always been a fan of blowjobs but it’s really grown on me since I’ve been in the industry. Now I’m kind of excited about them. Sometimes the BJ’s in just normal, non-BJ scenes are going on a little longer. They tell us we can move on to something else and I’m like “Awww, man.” For me it’s kind of fun in a weird way. There’s this buildup and it only gets more intense and more sloppy and I can deep throat more as time goes on. So to answer your question, no, it’s all me baby! For me, giving a blowjob is a fun little game that gets more sloppy as time goes on. I didn’t really think I’d enjoy blowjob only scenes as much as I do but I absolutely love them.

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CJ: What’s your ultimate sexual fantasy and do you want to live it out on camera?

Romi: My gosh, that’s a hard one. That could be even a little bit dangerous to answer because then I might get some phone calls. I’ve never had sex with two guys at the same time. I’ve been in a lot of threeways with girls and was actually in a relationship with a man and a woman but I’ve never had two guys at the same time. So in my dirty little mind that’s pretty exciting but I’m not quite brave enough to act that out on camera yet. That’s one of the few things in my private life that I haven’t experienced yet.

CJ: What do you look for in a guy off camera?

Romi: Again, it comes down to attitude. I don’t want to say charisma because that makes him sound like a douche. When a guy walks into a room and surveys the room and has his shoulders back and his head high. I like it when a man speaks softly, in a sense, because he’s very confident and masculine. Someone who demands respect without having to demand respect. I like that. I think that’s why I tend to go for older guys because they’re much more secure with themselves. They know who they are, they don’t need to try so hard to impress. I want the one in the room who the others are afraid to piss off. A nice guy too because my humor is a very big part of my personality. I’m probably a lot goofier than people think because I like to fuck aggressively. They think that I’m crazy and angry and mean. But I’m one of the most relaxed people, I just want to goof off and have sex. So anyone who is serious and professional and really cool and calm and collected and has his shit together and who likes to fuck and laugh. You’d be surprised at how hard that is to find though.

CJ: You have a new movie coming out with Kelly and Ryan Madison, Mad Mad Circus, what’s that all about?

Romi: That’s an orgy scene, an 8-way! There were 7 girls, Kelly Madison, Kendra Lust, Anikka Albrite, Brooklyn Chase, Christy Mack, Jackie Joy, Ryan Madison and myself. It was a lot of fun, it was a circus scene, 2 different scenes in it but I was just in the 8-way part. We all had our different roles and I was a snake charmer. I had to work with a 20 foot boa constrictor named Fluffy. And she was wrapped around me all day. They actually had to e-mail me beforehand to make sure I was fine with it. I was like, “Hell, yeah!” I get to play with a snake all day? I’m down with that! He was a heavy bitch and all the other girls were terrified. I had to explain to them that I was the only one in danger and they were a little more fine with it. When we got to the orgy, it was really fun. It was a wild, interesting scene and it was a super super hot orgy. Ryan and Kelly were amazing, the entire thing looks amazing and the sex was pretty good too!

CJ: Do you have any special non-sexual talents?

Romi: I’m pretty good at impressions! And I have a really good memory. A really good verbal memory. I can remember a lot of conversations verbatim. which kind of upsets people sometimes. I’ll say, “No you didn’t say that. I can tell you exactly what you said and what direction you were looking at when you said it.” I’m pretty good at video games, especially the shooting and fighting ones. I’m stronger than a lot of people think. I like crazy things like obstacle courses and mud runs. And I like to think that I’m funny! (laughs)

CJ: I hear you’ve been called the cat lady. How many cats to you currently have?

Romi: Just two. People always think I’m a crazy cat lady but I only have two, a brother and sister from the same litter.

CJ: What does the future hold? Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Romi: I have absolutely no idea in 10 years. In 5 years, I’d really like to have my website be this big destination site. I’d still like to be in the industry whether it’s performing or working on my site. I don’t have any plans to leave the industry any time soon so I certainly hope I’m still in it in 5 years. I really truly am trying to make this as a career for myself and I’m putting all my heart into it.

CJ: You just signed with the PUBA network for your website?

Roma: I did! I just signed with the PUBA network to get my site going. It’s very exciting because I’ll have all the control over what I shoot. I’m excited for the fans to see all sides of me because I can be really dark and wild and aggressive. And I can be a little goofball and suck on lollipops. Which is what I did sometimes on webcam, just dress in a costumer and eat candy. It’ll be really fun. I’m really excited. I’ve already been texting some of my porn friends. And I’ll cam a little bit more often because I haven’t really cammed since joining the industry last year. And next year, I hope to return to feature dancing! The 5-year plans sounds a little intense but the 2-year plan is on its way! I just want to keep moving forward and do some cool stuff!

CJ: How can the fans reach you in the meantime?

Romi: My Instagram is RomiRain. Tumblr is the same. My Twitter is @Romi_Rain. I’m pretty active on Twitter about what’s going on and I really want people to know about my scenes!

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12 Comments
  1. This woman will go far. Super sexy and alluring, real passion in her scenes. She’s a bombshell/knockout!

  2. I wish she would do more anal notabely double anal. DP should be the minimum

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  4. Intresting read. Nice interview #)

  5. ur smile is so…..cute dear

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