Honey Gold Interview

Captain Jack Interviews Honey Gold

Honey Gold is the newest Spiegler Girl and she’s taking the industry by storm! She is very insightful and open about her life and past experiences and I had a wonderful time talking to her! Any question I wanted to ask, she gave a straightforward and heartfelt answer. If Honey’s performances are anything like this interview (honest, energetic and to the point), she is going to go far in this industry!

Captain Jack: Tell me about Honey Gold.

Honey Gold: Originally, I am from up north. I moved around to different areas. I was in Oakland, San Francisco, I spent a lot of time there. As far as school goes, I went to a public school for a couple years, then a private school. Then, from 3^rd grade on, I was homeschooled through middle school and high school. Actually, I say I came from a very sheltered but not sheltered environment. Going into the typical middle school and high school, I was actually able to spend time in another country for various reasons. I got to do things that other people my age didn’t get the opportunity to do. But, unfortunately, there was a bit of sheltering that happened because of the homeschooling. It was actually a Christian homeschool program. That’s a very random fact about me. My parents are still married and they both are Christian. My father and mother are both heavily involved in the church. I come from a very hardcore Christian background. I’m starting to learn that people kind of expect that. (laughs) I was heavily involved in the Church myself prior to transitioning into porn. (laughs) It was just my family and I. I have 3 other siblings, I have an older brother, a younger sister and a younger brother who all know that I’m in porn.

CJ: How do they take it?

Honey: I’m not particularly sure because I haven’t interacted with my parents for about 4 ½ years. We had some differences and most people assume it’s because I was a very bad child. They can look at me now, I’m in porn, I have tattoos so I look bad ass, but there were just some differences that we couldn’t work out. Growing up, I was a very obedient child. I was a 4.0 student, I was on top of a lot of things but, during the time, my parents were going through a lot and they couldn’t necessarily care for me properly. So there was a lot of neglect and occasional abuse that tended to happen. I just decided that I’m going to do my own thing. I ran away and see if I can survive out in the big bad world. So that’s how that happened. When I first ran away, I struggled a lot. At one point, I hit rock bottom and was homeless but I am my father’s daughter and I found a way out of it. My parents are entrepreneurs, they own their own business and they taught me how to survive. My father ran away at a young age. It was a natural instinct and I feel my parents prepared me for hardship. After a while, I had the drive, I got my own apartment, all of which I had no help with. Being sheltered, I had no idea about credit, getting my own apartment, applications…you don’t know any of that. But over time, you figure it out with the help of Google. (laughs)

CJ: How old were you when you first left home?

Honey: To be specific, I was almost 19, I was 18 ½. Most people don’t consider it “running away” because you’re 18 but I did not have my parents’ prior consent to leave and I decided to run away 2 days before I actually did it. We have a very close knit family and we have a lot of future plans together so me leaving suddenly, kind of shook the entire family up. I think the only regret I have leaving is that I was very close to my siblings. That was tough, that was extremely tough. I definitely hope to reconcile with my parents at one point. I don’t expect them to accept what I’ve chosen to do with my life but, at the same time, I hear so many stories about ‘well, my parents didn’t talk to me at first but now it’s just something we don’t talk about but I still have a relationship with them.’ I pray to God that I might be one of those people because I do care about them. As you get older, you begin to understand why your parents did the things they did. And even though it was wrong and I can’t justify it, I do get it. So I’m at that point in my life. I get it, I would probably have done the same thing or something even worse. (laughs)

I do live with my older brother. I’m 23 and he’s 25 and he’s close to my family still even though he left home too. He told me that my mom found out I was in porn and that she didn’t bash me. Surprisingly, she didn’t say anything bad, she just said she was surprised I got into that industry. That’s something that shocked me. I totally didn’t expect that from my mom. Of all people, being totally dedicated to Christianity, I totally would expect them to say, ‘Well, you’re going to hell!’ (laughs) I know my little brother knows. He found out in a way that I would have prepared that he didn’t. My social media is public, it’s not private, it’s all for branding and building up a fan base. But, unfortunately, when I did my first scene with Burning Angel and it released on their site, I put the link in my bio and my little brother clicked it. And the first thing that popped up is a picture of me with Small Hands’ dick in my vagina. So I have mentally and emotionally scarred my little brother. My older brother has told me that he was going to stop watching porn because he didn’t want to come across anything with me in it.

CJ: When you were homeschooled, did someone come into your home to teach you? Or did you go somewhere with other kids? You said you were sheltered so I assume there weren’t many other kids.

Honey: The type of homeschooling that my siblings and I were put in, your parents or legal guardian was supposed to be the one who taught you. Being completely transparent and honest with you, I don’t blame my parents for this because they owned their own business, they couldn’t always find the time to be that parental figure so it was more of a self-study type of situation. I used to hate it because I was wondering why my mom or dad weren’t teaching me and I couldn’t figure everything out. What it forced me to do was it taught me to be more diligent about my studies and it taught me self-discipline. I didn’t know that would flow into other areas of my life in the future. Back then, I hated it but now, I’m like ‘way to go mom and dad! I really appreciate that!’ Maintaining a 4.0 with self-study, it was a serious program. It was part of the Christian Liberty Academy.

CJ: What’s your ethnicity?

Honey: I am Cantonese, Black, Cherokee Indian, Mongolian and Irish.

CJ: You’ve only been in the industry for a few weeks, right?

Honey: About a month and 2 weeks. I’m a little baby in the industry.

CJ: You were introduced at the White Party at AEE?

Honey: Yes, I was officially introduced as a Spiegler Girl. As far as I’m aware, Spiegler kept it on the downlow and then at the White Party, when it was official, everyone knew! It was surprising to me because I didn’t know when he was going to tell the general public. It was actually quite a surprise to me.

CJ: You weren’t signing during that week, right? You were just walking around?

Honey: Yes, it was my first time at AVN and I didn’t even know what it was prior to going. I had seen an AVN Magazine but I still wasn’t able to grasp what it was. That was my first time going. Unfortunately, I only got 2 days as, I hate to say it, a regular person. Then, after that, it was, alright, you have to network and meet people. I was happy about it but, at the same time, sad because I’ll never be able to go as a regular person again.

CJ: When did you lose your virginity?

Honey: When I was 19. Coming from a Christian background, you have that ‘don’t have sex before marriage’ thing. So I was waiting until marriage and when I left home, I got to the point where I got sick of waiting. I wasn’t meeting anyone, I wasn’t dating. In fact, I don’t understand the whole concept of dating, going out thing worked.  Apparently, the way I saw it, dating is when you were talking to people, getting to know them and you could “date” multiple people. That’s apparently not how everything works. So not understanding any of that, I decided I just wanted to get fucked. I was thinking about banging the guy at my local Walgreen’s or one of my co-workers at Chick-Fil-A. It ended up being the co-worker. He’s my ex now so I got lucky. (laughs)

CJ: You were only with two guys before porn?

Honey: Yes, only two. One is the guy I ended up dating at Chick-Fil-A. I got into a relationship with him then ended up dumping. The other guy is the guy I’m currently dating that is in the industry, Donny Sins.

CJ: I heard you banged a lot of girls, however. When was your first time with a girl?

Honey: Oooh, this one’s hard to remember. About 13 or 14. That’s young. Back then, it was more experimentation. A little kiss here and there, grab a little boob…as the year’s progressed, it evolved into all-out scissoring and pussy eating. It’s harder for me to keep track of female relationships because I don’t really consider them relationships.

CJ: You said 13, was that the first time you went down on a girl?

Honey: That was my first time I had seen an actual vagina in my face. Besides my moms. (laughs) But that’s not in a sexual way at all! It was the first time I had officially seen a vagina in front of my face. And it was the first time I licked a vagina. I didn’t really know what I was doing back then. I had seen it in Playboy magazine so it must be right, right? (laughs)

CJ: @Mr_DamienKarras from Twitter asks, you were with only two guys before porn. Now you’ve quadrupled that or maybe even more, is that weird for you?

Honey: To be honest, I don’t have a guilty conscience at all and it’s not weird at all for me. It’s probably the most fun I’ve ever had in my life. (laughs) I fucking love what I do. I’m genuinely passionate about it. I don’t need to smoke weed, I don’t need to take anything, I’m good to go on set because I genuinely love fucking and that’s why I’m having so much fun. It’s exciting to me.

CJ: You have a few sexy tattoos, when did you get your first tat?

Honey: I got my first tattoo when I was 19. I wanted to wait.

CJ: Do you have a favorite one?

Honey: Oh, fuck. Probably right now, because everyone else loves it, my favorite one is on my left hand, I have a geometric wolf. I really love the tattoo because, growing up, when I was in public school, I got bullied all the time, I was the girl who got picked on or the girl who got singled out in dodge ball. I’d be the girl walking off the field with a ballprint on my face. (laughs) When I was homeschooled, I was still heavily involved with the church my entire life and I still got picked on. I was bullied because I was mixed, I didn’t look like anyone else, I didn’t fit in with anyone else so most of my life I got bullied and beat up and I was really passive. I finally decided to get something that would visually remind me that I was not going to be a passive individual any longer. I was going to stand my ground and be strong. When I got that wolf, I kind of made it my alpha bitch. (laughs) I have strong leadership characteristics but I just get so scared of stepping on someone’s toes or hurting someone’s feelings, even though sometimes it needs to happen. I’ll let things slide and I told myself, ‘No more!’

CJ: @Mr_DamienKarras on Twitter asks, any plans for more?

Honey: In the future, I do plan on getting more tattoos. This is something everyone has told me, once you go into the industry with a certain look or a certain amount of tattoos, unless you become big time, it’s kind of got to stay that way. So that’s the bind I’m in right now. But I do plan on getting more tattoos because I have wanted to finish my arms. I want a little bit more work but I don’t want a sleeve. A really random tattoo that I do plan on getting in the future is a steaming bowl of rice with chopsticks. I’ve been wanting to do that for the longest time to celebrate my great grandmother. She’s from Canton, China. I was really close to her before she passed away. So that’s high on my priority list.

CJ: Besides Chick-Fil-A, I heard you had a couple of interesting jobs before porn?

Honey: Yes, my horrible 9-to-5’s! (laughs) I was in graphic design, I was an apprentice for a draftswoman. I was in architecture, I was in medical billing, I did coding, I worked at a dispensary. I worked in fast food like Chick-Fil-A here in LA. I worked at a goat cheese place which I absolutely hate now because I got sexually harassed multiple times there.

CJ: By customers or employees?

Honey: I had a boss where I had to give him attention or I wouldn’t get hours. So it’d be a little butt grab here, a lower back there..it was just that type of situation. I was just trying to make an honest living. I couldn’t lose my job so, unfortunately, that happens in the workplace, practically everywhere. I had to do what I needed to do to make my money. After a while, I quit and just said, ‘Fuck you and fuck this, I’m out!’ I couldn’t stand being disrespected in that way. If it’s mutual, fine but if it’s not, get the fuck away from me.

CJ: You were with two guys and a lot of women, why did you finally decide to make the jump into porn?

Honey: I’ve had a very adventurous life and I’ve done a lot more things than most individuals my age. So, seeing that I’ve held a lot of professional jobs, a lot of unprofessional jobs, I just decided that I wanted to do something different and I just got tired of being bullied in the workplace. Either I was too black, too Asian, too young, too many tattoos…people always found a reason to overwork me and make sure I was underpaid because of my looks or my personality. It just got to the point where I was fed up with my life and I decided that I wanted to go into freelance modeling. It was through doing erotic photography that I decided that this was what made me feel alive. I felt liberated doing that. It went from doing erotic photography to highly sexual photos that would be shipped out to high paying bidders that were outside the United States. I enjoyed how empowering it felt to the point where I thought I could take it to another level. When I met my current boyfriend, who is in the industry, he exposed me to a lot of other porn stars in the industry, the inner workings of everything and how it worked. Then I decided that, fuck, I wanted to do that. These people seemed happy, they are having a lot of fun and I had yet to explore my sexuality. This would be a really great place for me to explore my sexuality and cure this ridiculous sexual appetite that I have. (laughs)

The first awards show that I ever watched was the XRCO Awards and I was a bit jaded. It wasn’t what I expected, it was fucking amazing! I want to be one of those girls. When they were up there receiving awards, it’s amazing. The way I felt about it back then was you get recognition for the sexual acts you perform on camera. Wait, what? This is not the way mom and dad made it sound to me. It’s a lot more respectful than I was led to believe. Then I went to the AVN nomination party and that just blew my mind. That was the night I looked at the porn industry completely different. I just met so many people that were passionate about what they did. These people were happy compared to the people I was with at my medical billing job. I was with people that were just miserable and wanted to go jump off a bridge. I never wanted to be one of those people. So I decided that I wanted to give it a try. I think, over time, I could possibly be good at this and what do I have to lose? I know, in this industry, I can push myself as far as I want. I said fuck it, I was just going to contact whoever I can. I heard about different agencies and I did a lot of research and I read a lot of research. I really did a lot of research on Skin Diamond and Asa Akira in particular. I made sure I saw a therapist, I made sure I was emotionally stable and, after doing my research, watching movies, looking at the pros and cons AND looking up agencies, I decided I was going to contact Mark Spiegler, who is now my agent. Most people ask, how did I find him? Well, after doing research, and reading about Asa and Skin, I thought Mark was the way to go and googled him. I contacted him and he knew, after our conversation, he knew that I had not released a single scene and was a complete virgin to the porn industry. I don’t really know what he saw in me but he gave me an opportunity of a lifetime. He saw something in me and believed in me. He’s been walking me through everything step-by-step which still, right now, blows my mind. For all he could have known, I could have been some lame that wanted to contact him. I don’t know what it is that he saw but there’s not a day that goes by that I’m not thankful for it.

CJ: So what was your first scene like? You weren’t that sexually experienced and you fucked someone right in front of his wife so were you nervous? Turned-on? Intimidated?

Honey: Oh my God! I was nervous! Think about it! I had only fucked 2 people before porn and they were both people I ended up being in a relationship with! So I was going to do a scene, I was going to be in a porno and I was going to fuck someone’s husband in front of them. I had to excuse myself four different times during the shoot and I had to explain to Small Hands and to Joanna that I had really bad, nervous gas. (laughs) Honestly, when I walked in there, I said to myself, ‘Holy cow, girl, what the fuck are you doing?’ I was freaking out! I was talking myself through it. I was getting anxiety…I told myself that I wasn’t going to be a bitch. That’s literally what I told myself. What’s really nice about Small Hands and Joanna is that they made it so comfortable. I asked them before the scene if it was ok that I did this because this was her husband. I felt guilty! Let’s not lie, Small Hands is hot as hell! And Joanna is hot as hell! And I felt guilty that I was going to fuck someone’s husband in front of them. I still have that very innocent life experience. I know that’s going to change over time and it is getting easier. Joanna told me that it was normal. Small Hands went over what I was comfortable with, what I wasn’t comfortable with and we actually started the scene, I do not know what the fuck happened. It was instinct where I know over time that I’ll improve but I definitely did not think I was capable of putting out what I did for that scene. I didn’t know I was capable of acting like that but Small Hands has this way of bringing out the naughty little bad girl in people. I still say that out of everything that I’ve done, that was the most fun I’ve had. Out of every scene I’ve done, still, to this day, Small Hands is the only guy that let me slap him on camera. And that was fucking hot! I loved it! And he encouraged it! He saw something in my eyes that he knew I wanted to do it. I’m that type of person, if you let me get a little slap in here or there, that’s such a turn-on for me. I remember during the scene, he looked at me and he bit his lip, squinted his eyes, slightly and nodded his head and said, ‘Do it.’ And I know he felt the hesitation in my eyes but he said, ‘Do it!’ That was an explosive orgasm! (laughs) Most people don’t know about that little exchange we had but it was just so erotic. It was just perfect.

CJ: How did you come up with your stage name?

Honey: This is pretty exclusive because no one has asked me this question. There are two parts to this. The first time, I had this name in this head. Christina Perri has this song “Burning Gold”. One of my ex’s played this song for me when I was going through a really hard time. It finally hit home because if you listen to the lyrics and watch the music video, that is basically me in a nutshell. There is so much I wanted to do and I felt like I was trapped until “Burning Gold” got stuck in my head. I played it over and over again, I fucking loved it. So “Burning Gold” got branded in my brain. Then, my Instagram followers were always commenting on how beautiful my skin tone was, my ex always commented on my skin tone and when someone would try to describe it, it’s like a yellowish, brown, golden…like honey. People would struggle to describe my skin tone. I personally think I am Idaho Potato Brown. (laughs) After a while, people would tell me my skin was like honey because it was so rich with a golden undertone. So I was sitting with Donny and we had to come up with a stage name. This wasn’t even for porn, this was just for an Instagram name. And I came up with some weird stuff. I came up with different names until I finally just came up with Honey and Gold. Honey Gold. I thought that was stupid. Honey Gold, what the hell is that. And then I started googling it and I saw it was actually a color. It happened to be an apple. I thought Skin Diamond was different. She has a very unique stage name and it was probably weird when people first started saying it. Skin Diamond. What the hell is a Skin Diamond? But over time, people would accept it and get into it. So I haven’t heard of Honey Gold. I love it because it matches my skin tone. I want it. So that’s the weird way of how I came up with Honey Gold.

CJ: What’s your favorite position?

Honey: Let me think about this because a lot of these positions, I’ve never been put in before. (laughs) My favorite position would still have to be doggie and most people who know me know I love it because I can play with my clit and I love the feeling of balls slapping against me. There’s nothing hotter than that! There are some guys who have bigger balls than others and it’s nice. Depending on where everything’s positioned, and where you’re positioned, it has to be just right, the feeling of getting pounded from behind while having the balls slap against you, is hot!

CJ: A lot of the guys in porn are older. Does it ever bother you to work with older men?

Honey: No, I actually prefer it. Donny’s 31 and I’m 23. I love older men, I love older women. I just have a thing for MILFs and DILFs. I love men and women who are older. They have so much experience, they know what they’re doing. Most of the people I’ve worked with, like Johnny Castle, they can figure me out in a second. I love it.

CJ: What do you like sexually? What gets Honey wet?

Honey: I’m still in the process of learning about myself sexually so I can say, right now, being 11 scenes in, a sexual turn-on for me is neck kissing. If it’s done right with the right amount of pressure, it’s just erotic. Neck kissing really gets me going and I really just like stuffing stuff in my vagina. (laughs) Foreplay kind of irritates me because I haven’t learned to be patient yet. Sometimes a guy during a scene will go really slow and then he’ll start seeing that I’m getting pissed off and just start pounding away. I am so bad at foreplay. I also love getting finger banged. It is the best feeling in the world.

CJ: You said you were really into it when you slapped Small Hands so I take it you’re more dominant or are you a switch?

Honey: I used to think that I was submissive and I liked being submissive. But, honestly, I don’t know anymore. I don’t think I can pick dominant or submissive anymore. I like coming off as very submissive and shy but then I like becoming the aggressor. I like the struggle for power, even in my personal life. I like when someone tries to fight for control. It’s playful. It’s a turn-on for me. I like aspects of both.

CJ: How often do you masturbate?

Honey: Probably 5 to 6 times a day now. It’s really bad! It’s time consuming too! I can masturbate in a minute if I really just want to rub one out.

CJ: Favorite method?

Honey: Have you heard about those Shibari Vibrators? I got the mini one off Amazon. I got it about 2 months ago. I never had any toys prior to that. Oh my God! That thing is heaven! I use it all the time! Then they have the big My Free Cams vibrators and I try using them together and when I’m done, I need to go back to sleep! I’m done! (laughs)

CJ: When a guy pops, where do you like it?

Honey: I like when a guy cums on my face and my tongue. I like getting as much of the cum into my mouth as possible because I like to play with it. I think it’s boring when you just take it and swallow it because, ‘OK, where did it go?’ I think it’s way sexier to take it and dribble it down your breasts or play with it and get all nice and messy. I love playing with cum! (laughs)

CJ: Are you a size queen? Do you like huge cocks?

Honey: Right now, I can definitely say that huge cocks aren’t really a priority to me. Right now, from where I stand, and this may change the longer I’m in the industry, I feel you can have fun with any size. I don’t think bigger necessarily means better because I have a thing called a cervix and when that thing gets punched by a long dick too many times, it kind of hurts! My first cock was 8 ½” and the one I have right now, I’m not sure how big it is. Some people tell me 11”, some say 10”…it’s big. Those are great but I have had guys who are smaller on set who have given me explosive orgasms. I feel it’s a matter of if a guy actually knows how to use it.

CJ: Are you going to do anal on camera?

Honey: Of course! I fucking love anal! I do a lot of anal in my personal life! I have days where I just want to get off and I’ll be ramming myself with an 8” dildo. And I’m not talking about in my vagina either! I’m talking about my ass! I love it! I definitely plan on doing anal!

CJ: What do you look for in a guy off camera?

Honey: Honestly, I’m one of those girls that thinks personality means more than looks. Most people think that’s absolute horsecrap coming out of my mouth. They’re like, ‘you’re hot, you can say that!’ but most people don’t know that I was an ugly fucking duckling growing up. And I still don’t see myself that thinks of herself as so pretty. I see my personality and I’ve applied it to the mentality of guys. I don’t care how you look. I’ve been with great looking guys and I’ve been with an amputee. I really do feel that the heart matters above all else. Aside from that, I love a guy that likes to stay in, watches Adult Swim and likes trying different kinds of food! That’s my kind of guy. (laughs) And a guy that doesn’t mind me practicing giving head to him. Sometimes it’ll be all hands or no hands…someone that’s down for getting interesting blowjobs at interesting times.

CJ: What are you like off-camera? What are your hobbies and interests?

Honey: When I’m off-camera, I’m a huge fitness freak. I used to be 180 pounds. Since I’ve lost all that weight, I love going to the gym. I love challenging myself and, for the sake of my fans, I want to be as toned as possible. Not muscular but toned. I want to build my butt so I like going to the gym. My favorite thing to do is eating. If I had to choose between sex and food, I’d take food. It’s like an orgasm in your mouth! I like trying different restaurants. I like trying the top 10 spots in LA. (laughs) I really enjoy spending time with my dogs. I’m kind of a boring person to be completely honest. In my free time, I end up buying lingerie for sets or trying my best to respond to fans, which can take hours. So when I’m not working, I’m a homebody. I like to keep to myself because I’m not into the partying scene. I don’t drink for multiple reasons. I like keeping to myself.

CJ: What kind of dogs do you have?

Honey: I have an all-black Pug and a new baby brindle Pit. She doesn’t actually look like a Pit, she’s so pretty. I have a cat too but my cat’s getting old and he’s getting kind of grouchy. I just feed him, pet him now and then but I keep my distance because I never know when he’s in a bad mood.

CJ: You’re a foodie so what’s your favorite food?

Honey: If you love food, you know that is the hardest question in the world. I figured it out…I know my favorite food right now, I love oysters. They’re amazing! It’s my addiction! It’s hard to find good oysters in LA so I dream about having oysters. That’s how bad it is!

CJ: What kind of music do you like?

Honey: I like listening to Tropical House. That, or relaxing EDM. I like something that’s uplifting. I’m a naturally cheery person. I don’t want to bash anyone else’s taste in music but I don’t particularly like hip hop. I feel that the mind is a very sensitive organ so you have to careful about what you’re putting into it and a lot of it is negative. I don’t think that’s the best thing in the world for me. You know how you can listen to happy music and it’ll enhance your mood and be happier? If you listen to a breakup song, it’ll bring you back to a very bad breakup. I try to keep my mindset in a very happy, uplifting kind of place.

CJ: Do you have any favorite movies?

Honey: I’m very bad when it comes to movies. I haven’t watched anything lately. I watch a lot of television shows.

CJ: What’s your favorite TV shows?

Honey: Rick and Morty. I love Rick and Morty. I watch a lot of Adult Swim.

CJ: And how can the fans get ahold of you?

Honey: On Twitter, I’m @HoneyGoldXX. Instagram and Snapchat is also @HoneyGoldXX

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