Bella Lexi: Ex-Cop Turned Pornstar!

Bella Lexi Talks with Captain Jack

Bella has been in the news for leaving her previous job as a police office to get into the adult industry! We finally got a chance to talk about her life and career and, yes, we talked about her transition in careers. Bella is very engaging and has some good stories. We had a good time on the call and I hope you enjoy!

Captain Jack: Tell me about Bella Lexi.

Bella Lexi: I’m a Colorado native and I have never moved away from here. I decided I wanted to be a police officer in the early 90s when Cops came out. I watched an episode of Trojan Horse is what they called it. All the cops jumped out of a cardboard box in the back of an El Camino and I thought, ‘OK, that’s what I want to do when I grow up.’ I have 2 kids, I’m married and I play golf a lot. I am a dedicated cheerleader for my kids and now that I’m not working in the police field, I’m able to not miss a lot of their activities. It gives me a lot more freedom of schedule. I have 2 dogs and they have their own Twitter. I call them my corn dogs.

CJ: What kind of dogs?

Bella: A mini golden poodle and a lab. My lab is an old man. He’s 12.

CJ: How old are you?

Bella: I’m 49.

CJ: How long have you been shooting now?

Bella: I have been doing content for 4 years and pro for 2 years.

CJ: You are known for being a police lieutenant. Did you do that right out of college?

Bella: I never went to college as a kid. I graduated high school and I had already gotten a job offer from a local sheriff’s office here. They told me all I have to do is be 18. They told me I have to have a diploma and be 18 but I didn’t have a diploma yet so I decided to wing it. Then, I had to bring in my diploma and I could start whenever I had those things in order. I started in law enforcement the first Monday after graduation.

CJ: Were you working the street right away? Or what happened?

Bella: I’m going to give you a little funny fact because this is something no one has. When I had to fumble my way through my first day of starting work because I failed my senior year. And, so, when I opened my diploma case, there was a note to see Mr. Principal on Monday at 8am. I was, ‘What?’ I had to hide it from my parents. I had to hide it from my employer. And I had to do summer school before I could get my diploma. (laughs) So, I started working in records and it was on the graveyard shift and we would listen to dispatch so we knew where the cops were going. We had access to the conveyor system to see it. It was one of those things where we were on our computer and had to send messages to the cops. I built this rapport with the street cops and after about 10 months, they said I should apply to dispatch. They thought I’d be really good and it was a pay increase. So, I went to dispatching and I did that for 15 years of my career. Dispatching and 9-1-1 call taking. And then I was waiting for someone to sponsor me to go to police academy. I finally had someone that did it. I was all for it and that  was my job for 5 months and then I got sworn in and started working in the jail. That’s where I started.

CJ: Then you became a police lieutenant?

Bella: So, I went to the street and in 2 ½ years, I was promoted to sergeant. I loved being a beat cop but my lieutenant was telling me to just test for sergeant. I didn’t want to do it, I didn’t want to be a boss, I just wanted to be the person pushing the line. I went through the whole process and became a sergeant and I was a sergeant for 6 years before I became a lieutenant.

CJ: And how long were you a lieutenant?

Bella: Just about 2 years. It was so close to my 2-year anniversary when a former friend turned me into my work, when they found my OnlyFans. At the time, it was like 20 years of my life gone in a flash. I loved being a cop! I have so many amazing stories and funny stories and things like that and I just loved the job. The funny stories I have more than makes up for the not so great stories of things that you end up doing. I lived for those funny stories! That’s what got you through the shift! I responded to a sex party once. We went over there and the neighbors goes, ‘They have sex parties over there!’ ‘Sex parties?’ Me and my partner went over there, this gal opens the door and she has a see through robe, it’s not tied up or anything. She goes, ‘Hi! How are you?’ We told her we had a noise complaint and did she mind if we walked in and made sure everybody was ok. She said, ‘Absolutely! But you’ll have to forgive the different stages of dress.’ My partner pulled me out of the door! I looked at him and he goes to her, ‘OK, maam, have a great night!’ I said to him, ‘How did we not go into the house??’ This is one of those big moments in a career that you can tell for the rest of your career! It’s not very often where a girl comes to the door naked. That was the one and only time that happened to me.

CJ: You said you got reported about your OnlyFans. What did they say, that you were embarrassing the police department?

Bella: She said that I was disgracing my badge and the sheriff office’s reputation and women try really hard to become police officers and I was shaming the job.

CJ: Did you start in professional porn right after that?

Bella: I started 6 months after my story went international through a media leak. That’s when I thought, ‘I always enjoyed porn. I’ve always wanted to shoot porn. We’re doing the amateur stuff, maybe we should do it professionally!’ My husband said, ‘Let’s figure it out!’ Within 20 minutes I had an agent and I was shooting my first scene for Hot MILFs Fuck a week later.

CJ: So, what was that first scene like? You were sexually experienced but it’s different with all these people around. Were you intimidated? Nervous? Turned on?

Bella: It was actually super cool. Hot MILFs Fuck, their thing is women that have never shot before. And it was really cool because, a lot of people may not know this but you just don’t jump right into the sex. There was hair and make up and this and that and I was talking to the make up person and the director that was there and they’re asking questions about what happened to me and I’m asking questions about their expectations of what they want for me. The talent came in and we went to the room we were shooting in. I was super nervous for the first 90 seconds but because I had spoken to all these people, it wasn’t terrible. I had a really good time, they were super awesome and they made me feel really comfortable even though there were so many cameras and lights.

CJ: What’s your favorite position?

Bella: My favorite position is doggie. I think it’s super sexy. I’m mostly dominant and that’s the only position where I don’t have all of the control.

CJ: Before you got into OnlyFans, were you a very sexual person?

Bella: Yes, I always have been.

CJ: Were you with girls before porn?

Bella: Yes. I was always curious about being with women. And then I got my job at the sheriff’s office and someone I was working with was flirting with me and I was just 19. That was my first experience. I thought that it was exactly what I thought it was going to be like. Ever since then, if the chemistry’s there, the opportunity, I’ve taken advantage of that.

CJ: You have very impressive breasts, what size are they?

Bella: They are 36 Triple D.

CJ: Why did you get them?

Bella: I got them for myself and for my husband. I really wanted bigger ones, I already had implants, I found a surgeon to do them and I loved it! I wanted to look big, I wanted them to look fake and they’re everything I wanted them to be.

CJ: Have you ever been in an inappropriate sexual relationship?

Bella: I was, actually. That’s a great question and you’re the first person who ever asked me that. I had a part time job in high school working for a pizza company and I ended up having an affair with the manager, who was married. And I was like, ‘OK, I can’t let this happen any more!’ And the last time it happened was with a supervisor in law enforcement. And that person was in charge of me at the time, for lack of a better term. That’s the only time I slept with a supervisor, boss, sergeant, a position more than I was..

CJ: How long did that one go on for?

Bella: A month, maybe 6 weeks.

CJ: Being in your 40s, do you prefer working with people your own age or do you like the younger people in the industry?

Bella: I would have to say that I’ve only worked with younger talent. However, I have worked with some very talented videographers and directors who are maybe 5 years younger than me and I think that between all of that age difference and life experience and all those things, I think it really makes the set come alive because you’re wanting to know about the person you’re shooting with. I think that really allows some of that comaraderie and chemistry going and that’s where a really good scene happens.

CJ: What do you like sexually? What gets Bella wet?

Bella: Oh gosh. Well, I watch a lot of porn. I would say first and foremost, being with my husband, it doesn’t take anything because I’m super turned on by him. But I would say that I get turned on making custom videos. I get turned on by making something that’s in my fans’ wheelhouse and they can’t get enough of. To me, it’s not just performing but I’m in the moment, I’m enjoying it, I hope they love this because without them, I wouldn’t be here. It’s such a turn on knowing people are going to watch this and jerk off to it.

CJ: You say you watch porn, what’s your favorite genre?

Bella: I would say the stepson/stepmom/stepdaughter. I also love lesbian scenes. And I love watching other amateur scenes.

CJ: Did you have any favorite stars?

Bella: I’m a huge fan girl! I love Brittany Andrews. Tommy Gunn, Evan Stone…I’ve watched all of their stuff

CJ: You mentioned masturbation so how often do you masturbate?

Bella: It used to be a lot more but I’ve been super busy with shooting and stuff so I would say a couple times a week. It used to be every day. But it also depends on what I’m shooting. If I’m shooting solo then I am masturbating but I’m doing it on camera but I don’t count that as personal masturbation. I cum and it’s real but for my own self enjoyment, maybe twice a week.

CJ: Favorite method?

Bella: I love the Hitachi. The first time I ever heard of one or saw one or used one was that Hot MILFs Fuck scene. They broke all of my cherries! And I also have a sex toy that I like. Vaginal penetration and g-spot stimulation. It’s been a favorite of mine since I used to sell sex toys on my own. And I’m probably on my fourth or fifth one. (laughs)

CJ: You mentioned your dominant. Have you ever pegged a guy?

Bella: I have not done that yet. It’s funny because people will say, ‘You can peg me!’ and obviously, I’m not going to peg random people. As much as men are interested in that, they’re not so willing to give up their butthole.

CJ: Have you ever given or received a golden shower?

Bella: I have. I have received and it’s kind of hot, I’m not going to lie. I have watched that type of porn and I enjoy it. It turns me on.

CJ: When a guy pops, where do you prefer it?

Bella: I would say my favorite is my face or in my mouth. And a lot of times when they get it on your face, they get it on my tits too so it’s a twofor.

CJ: Are you a swallower?

Bella: Yes.

CJ: Do you do creampies on camera?

Bella: Yes I do.

CJ: Are you a size queen? Do you like huge cocks?

Bella: I’m not a size queen and I know that you can appreciate a different sized cock all the time. And I don’t need big because big isn’t always comfortable. And so, I’m not that way; I never have been that way but if you can’t use it and can’t make me cum, we’re not doing that again.

CJ: Are you going to do anal on camera?

Bella: I will someday. It’s not on the table right now but it’s not been frozen out. It’s just going to be the right timing and the right studio and the right circumstance and those kind of things. Right now, I just save that for my husband.

CJ: Do you have any fantasies you would like to live out on-camera?

Bella: I would love to make a sex video that is a power struggle type of thing between two cops, one is just an average cop and one is a supervisor and do something like that because people are curious about that type of thing and ask about it all the time. And I would say that something like that would not only be a fantasy for me because I never really participated in something like that except for the one time. I would say to have a carefree zone to explore it, produce and disseminate it, for sure.

CJ: With you doing porn and being married, are you in the lifestyle?

Bella: No, we have investigated it a couple of times but we don’t participate in the lifestyle anymore.

CJ: What do you look for in a guy off camera?

Bella: He has to be tall, blonde, fit, have amazing teeth and veiny arms. That’s my thing. I see that and I’m like, ‘OK, here we go!’

CJ: What about girls?

Bella: Someone my size or smaller. I love blonde women as well. And someone who has smaller boobs than I do.

CJ: How tall are you?

Bella: 5’7”.

CJ: What are you like off-camera? When you have free time, what do you do for fun?

Bella: I play a lot of golf. I watch a lot of golf so now that it’s not the season, I’m definitely missing it. I cheer on my kids at their sporting events. And then I watch all other sports. Like I’m watching the Road to the World Series right now and all those games. And basketball and hockey is about to start. I love all sports.

CJ: What’s the wildest or kinkiest thing you’ve ever done in your personal life?

Bella: That’s a real good one. I would say beucase I don’t really do this with a lot of people and it may seem kind of vanilla to some of my fans but when me and my husband are together, I’m not good with being bound or not being able to see, but he tied me up and blindfolded me and it was so hot and so intense. And, for me, it was super kinky because I had to give up all control of everything and it was super hot. And to just feel him touch me, drove me crazy. I still go back and masturbate to that video.

CJ: And how can the fans follow you on social media?

Bella: On X/Twitter, I’m @real_bella_lexi. Instagram is @the.real.bella.lexi.2. OnlyFans is the_real_bella-lexi. My website is therealbellalexi.comand it has all my links.

 

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