Aria Alexander Interview

Captain Jack interviews Aria Alexander

Aria is a gorgeous woman who I had the pleasure of talking to recently. But more than that, she is intelligent and has a great personality. For every moment of the discussion, you could hear the smile in this beauty’s voice. She loves life and she brings that passion to the adult screen. I had a great time talking to Aria and I’d like to thank Veruca James for introducing me during the recent AEE. This is a girl to keep an eye on in the industry!

Aria Alexander

Captain Jack: Tell me about Aria Alexander.

Aria Alexander: I grew up in the Houston area and had a pretty normal childhood. In school, I was pretty popular. I won Most Unforgettable, Most Attractive and Most Athletic. Those were all in separate years. I played tennis, soccer and track. I also did cross country in middle school. I did not like that. It was miserable! (laughs) You’d be running for 10 hours at a time. Ugh! For tennis, I was on the freshman team then in my sophomore year, I immediately moved up to varsity. I was pretty good. Soccer I was never really that good at so I pretty much stayed on JV until I lost interest in it. In track, I tore a meniscus once on a hurdle and it went completely inverted so I had to have surgery. That kind of scarred me from track. Although I’m still running, I run about 10-15 miles a week. I like to keep healthy. (laughs) Since I moved to California, I’ve wanted to go mountain climbing because I have access to that now and it’s super cool and exciting!

CJ: How old are you?

Aria: I’m 19 and I’m turning 20 in about two weeks!

CJ: How long have you been in the industry?

Aria: I shot a couple of scenes over the course of about a year so I wouldn’t really consider myself part of the industry at that point. However, right before AVN, I moved here and ever since then, I’ve been shooting for real. I have my heart in it and am going to make a career out of it.

CJ: When did you lose your virginity?

Aria: (laughs) I lost my virginity in the summer going from middle school to high school so I was about 13, 14, somewhere in there. It’s a hilarious story, it’s super white trash, the best kind of story. (laughs) So all my friends had lost their virginity and I was super jealous. I was at the age where I was exploring my sexuality. I was starting to masturbate and do all that stuff so I was super itching to lose it. I was riding my bike around because I lived near a forest. It was a country-ish area. There was this black guy that used to play basketball down from where my street was. Every single time I rode by him, he would wave to me and wink at me and I knew I could have him if I wanted him. (laughs) So I decided to exploit that for my own selfish, special purposes and I started flirting with him one day. I said that we should hang out and all this other stuff and so me, being the devious little slut I am or that I grew up to be, said ‘We should take a walk in the woods! It’d be fun, seeing nature, it’ll be fun!’ So we took a walk in the forest and one thing led to another and we were talking and flirting and we started making out and all this other stuff. This is where the white trash comes in. (laughs) I remember there were pine needles everywhere and he was going to lay me down on the needles and I kind of winced at it and said,’ Ew, I don’t want to lie in the pine needles.’ He was wearing a wife beater and he took it off and laid it in the pine needles and me being a stupid little kid said, ‘Ohhh, this is so romantic!’ (laughs) We did it and I had already started masturbating so I think I popped my own cherry because I didn’t bleed or anything like that. A lot of people have bad ‘losing their virginity’ stories but I really enjoyed mine! I thought it was exciting and awesome!

Aria Alexander

CJ: You said you were a dirty little slut, once you got that out of the way, were you promiscuous?

Aria: Believe it or not, I didn’t! I was so academically inclined, I was in a bunch of clubs and honors and was very elite in my school, and all I had access to was my classmates, so I didn’t sleep around or anything. I slept with the black guy a couple of more times after that but then I lost interest in him. Then I didn’t do it again until I had my long term boyfriend. And we, oh my God!, we fucked like animals! 3 or 4 times a day everyday, it was awesome! (laughs)

CJ: How many guys did you sleep with before porn?

Aria: In my high school career, I only had sex with two or three people. But as soon as I got out and I was free to be in college and explore a little bit, I went to town! (laughs) I was with one guy for a very, very long time so that narrowed my numbers down. I was always paranoid people would find out and didn’t want to be thought of as a slut. Outside of porn, I think I’ve only had sex with about 11 or 12 people.

CJ: Were you with girls before porn?

Aria: I always wanted to but I never had the opportunity. During house parties, I would make out with girls but I never went all the way with one until porn. I had a scene with Daisy Ducatti and that was awesome! That was my first experience with a girl. Not only was it my first girl/girl scene but it was my first girl/girl experience! Ever! So if anyone is interested in seeing that, they can definitely go and check that out. I believe that was for Mile High Video.

CJ: You said with the black guy that you knew you could get him if you wanted, at what age did you learn the power of the pussy?

Aria: I still haven’t discovered it, unfortunately! I’ve never flashed anyone for a free drink or try to fuck the cable guy or anything like that. It’s something I’m still finding out about to this day!

CJ: How and why did you decide to get into the adult industry?

Aria: I started mainstream modeling when I was younger. So I was living in South Carolina and going to college. There was this studio that shot fetish stuff and they contacted me. I was pure and innocent and I didn’t know anything about that. I didn’t even nude model, I modeled normal clothes and stuff. They showed me some pictures of girls rubbing shaving cream all over themselves smoking 3 cigarettes and stuff like that. I thought it was interesting. I thought I could get into that. Since they had a model roster and every single video was a custom video, girls got paid outrageous amounts for a 10-15 minute video. For a 10 minute video, you could get $300 and I thought it was crazy that you could get that much money for 10 minutes. I said, ‘Hell yeah I’m interested in this!’ So I did that for about 6 or 7 months before I moved to Virginia. Upon getting there, I wanted to do some more fetish stuff but there wasn’t anything. So I figured I had already gone that far that I might as well try porn. I love fucking, (laughs) why shouldn’t I get paid for it, I’m going to do it anyways! I tried to find some people around there and I made this Twitter that was kind of sexy and stuff. I did some sketchy shoots like a guy with a camera. Then Amateur Allure contacted me and asked if I would be interested in flying to Los Angeles and shooting for them. I was like, ‘Wowwwwww! That’s my first professional shoot!’ And I started thinking about it and I thought that was so much money and he’s a cute dude, I wouldn’t mind fucking him! (laughs) So then I thought I should get an agent. It’s impossible to grow without one. And everyone I talked to had pretty bad horror stories about agents except for Mark Spiegler. So I called him and we set up a meeting. I was really scared of him at first because he’s so powerful. He’s big, macho Spiegler who’s at the top of the industry and knows everybody. I was super intimidated but apparently he liked me because I’m working for him now. And now I love Mark, he’s the best! (laughs) He’s really sweet, he cares about the girls. I love Mark to death. About 3 or 4 months later, I moved down here and started doing porn. And I love it! It is just so incredible! I’ve met so many awesome people and the sex is mind blowingly awesome usually. (laughs)

Aria Alexander

CJ: Does your family know what you do?

Aria: God no. No, no, no. I think I’m going to write out that I’m doing software designing. (laughs) I don’t want to ruin their bliss. I know they’re going to find out eventually and, if they don’t, I’m not a good porn star. (laughs) I’m just going to try and let them live in their bliss for as long as possible. Whether or not I tell them or they find out on their own, they’re going to be just as upset. And they’ll forgive me. They’ll be disappointed but we love each other and they’ll accept me. (laughs)

CJ: You were first known as Sasha Nexx, why did you change it?

Aria: I kind of picked that as a last ditch effort. I didn’t even consider it. It wasn’t really something I felt attached to and when I started to make a website, someone else had already registered the name Sasha Nexx. It was kind of a blessing in disguise because I hated the name.

CJ: Before I was even introduced to you in Vegas, I saw you outside the Spiegler booth. You and Lily Labeau could be sisters!

Aria: (laughs) Everybody tells me that. On the one hand, I don’t mind because she’s super gorgeous and sweet. I fell in love with Lily, she’s so awesome. On the other hand, I kind of want my own identity and it’s kind of a bummer in that regard. (laughs)

CJ: So what was your first scene like? You were sexually experienced but it’s different in front of a camera.

Aria: It was with Amateur Associates. They’re kind of small. They found me on Twitter and I had to think hard about it because I was in my transitional phase. Eventually, I decided to go for it and I had to drive about an hour out. They drove halfway and I drove halfway. I thought, ‘Oh my God! I hope they’re not going to rape me!’ I didn’t have any experience in it yet. So I got there and filled out some paperwork. They paid me in cash which was sketchy. (laughs) There’s nothing wrong with cash but it has a sketchier vibe to it. I met the people and there were only two people on set that day, the camera guy and the talent. And the talent was the guy who owned and ran the company. It was really weird because I didn’t bring any wardrobe or anything. That scene, I remember not being very comfortable in front of the camera because I had never done anything like that before. But I lost myself in the scene and thought it was awesome. Typical sex! (laughs)

CJ: What’s your favorite position?

Aria: Doggie for sure, I love it!

CJ: Do you have any favorite scenes?

Aria: Oh, definitely. I shot a scene with Prince Yahshua for Arch Angel. He was like….oooohhhh. That scene killed, let me tell you. (laughs) We had chemistry and it felt superawesome. We had free reign to do what we wanted instead of being ultra scripted. The crew was real cool and everyone was in a good mood. That scene blew me away. I loved it!

CJ: You said in POV Auditions 16 that you’re the best at giving blowjobs, what makes you so good?

Aria: Because I pay attention to those smaller details, man! (laughs) You can’t just stick it in your mouth and expect it to go well. You can’t be, ‘Oh yeah, I’m just going to lick it a couple times.’ You’ve got to get into it! You’ve got to devote your tongue to that dick! (laughs) You have to swirl it around, you have to tease it in between. Give them what they want! I’ve been watching a little porn myself for research purposes and a lot of the girls, they can have sex but they’re not really putting any heart and soul into it. They’re not really enjoying it. It’s one thing to enjoy sex and enjoy receiving but you can’t TRULY be part of the scene unless you’re giving just as much!

Aria Alexander

CJ: A popular genre in porn is like the stepdaughter getting with a stepdad and stuff like that. Have you ever been in an inappropriate sexual relationship?

Aria: No. (laughs) However, I’ve had so many crushes on teachers, I may as well have. I’ve done so much fantasizing on that subject.

CJ: A lot of the guys in porn are older. Does it ever bother you to work with older men?

Aria: No, not at all. My single favorite age of any guy ever is mid-30s because it’s so tender and they know what they want and they’ve experienced all that there is. Mid-30s is the age that’s prime to me for men.

CJ: What’s the oldest guy you’ve been with off-camera?

Aria: I don’t really ask how old they are, I don’t really know. (laughs)

CJ: What do you like sexually? What gets Aria wet?

Aria: As for fetishes and stuff, I really like getting my hair touched. I don’t know why but there’s something about a woman who has her delicate hands touching your hair and massaging your head. Stuff like that. When your hair sweeps the nape of your neck that just turns me on so much. Any gentle touch to the back of my neck, I just love. I eat it up. I haven’t really told anyone on set this because I don’t want to do a lot of scenes like this because it’s more of a personal thing to me but I really love being choked and rough sex and being told how disgusting and worthless I am. (laughs) In a scene, I’m not sure I’d enjoy it as much but in my personal life, I love that shit! (laughs)

CJ: How often do you masturbate?

Aria: It depends what kind of mood I’m in. Before porn, I don’t know what my problem is but I masturbated so often. I have a Hitachi and it takes all of fucking 5 minutes to cum. So you bet I’m going to do that 5 times a day. No matter how much sex I’m having, it’s still nice to masturbate every once in awhile. (laughs) Or 5 times a day. (laughs)

CJ: When a guy pops, where do you prefer it?

Aria: I don’t know. In my personal life, I like creampies. If I have a boyfriend or a longterm relationship, I like the way it feels and I’m into it and I know they like it better, so why not? But if I’m with somebody that I’m not going to be fucking consistently or in a scene, I prefer to swallow. Or on my face.

CJ: Are you a size queen? Do you like huge cocks?

Aria: I’m not picky, as long as they know how to use them. (laughs)

CJ: Are you going to do anal?

Aria: I don’t know about that. I say that I probably will in the future but when it comes down to it, I’m ultimately not really sure. I’m worried whether or not I enjoy it, it’s going to be bad for my body and my health. So I’m not sure. Maybe one day.

CJ: What’s your ultimate sexual fantasy and do you want to live it out on camera?

Aria: I actually have an intense rape fantasy. I just think that’s so hot. Like you walk into an alley or if you go running at night, have someone pop out of the bushes and rape me. (laughs) I don’t know but I always thought that was so hot. I wouldn’t care what the dude would look like. That’s the point, you don’t want them to be good looking, you want them to be kind of nasty so you’re suffering and stuff like that. Oh, I thought that was so hot. Or getting too drunk at a party and someone drugs your drink and you wake up and you don’t know what happened. (laughs)

CJ: What do you look for in a guy off camera?

Aria: I don’t really care. I kind of have a type but I’m not confined to that type. I don’t look for any specific things and kind of go with the flow. If we have chemistry, then we go from there. Lately, I’ve noticed that I gravitate to real nerdy types, guys that are into rock music and it becomes a lifestyle for them. Super manly, macho, asshole types, I love it. (laughs)

Aria Alexander

CJ: What are you like off-camera? What are your hobbies and interests?

Aria: I have birds and I’m actually trying to get into breeding right now. I’m trying to get them to have sex and lay eggs. I don’t even know what type they are. (laughs) I’ve been trying to figure it out but I have no fucking idea! (laughs) I also like running. I want to go hiking. And I haven’t really found a partner here yet but I love tennis. I play video games a lot and I really enjoy cooking. I know it sounds lame but I love it. I like finding exotic recipes and make something from scratch. It’s empowering to sit down and eat a meal that you made. It’s so much fucking better than the Cheesecake Factory or anywhere else. (laughs)

CJ: You’re the perfect woman. You love sex and you love cooking.

Aria: And I clean! (laughs)

CJ: What’s your specialty for cooking? What’s your favorite type of food?

Aria: Well my favorite foods are cereal and pizza. (laughs) As for cooking, I like to avoid pastas because they’re way too easy. I tend to try and make real healthy meals out of unexpected things. Recently I found a recipe for spaghetti and it was super interesting. For the wine sauce, you chop the tomatoes and onions and mix it with the seasoning and you boil them together so you have your sauce. Then instead of noodles, you get a spaghetti squash and you roast it in the oven at 450. It became this really interesting, not really quite noodles but good enough. Spaghetti squash has about 20 calories for the entire serving so it’s pretty much like eating water. It’s really healthy and real diety. Then you can serve up some meatballs or anything you like. I got a real kick out of that. It’s not traditional but it’s traditional.

CJ: You also mentioned video games, what’s your favorite video game?

Aria: I love Borderland! It’s so fun!

CJ: You mentioned rock before, is that your favorite type of music?

Aria: Oh definitely, I’m such a rocker. (laughs) My favorite band of all-time is definitely Iron Maiden. I fucking love them, I can’t get enough of them. My favorite song of theirs is Dance of Death. I love to run to that, it hypes me up so good. My first concert actually was The Flogging Molly’s and that got me into folksy, Irish, traditional but still kind of punk rock type of stuff like Drop Kick Murphys and the Real McKenzies and stuff like that.

CJ: What’s your favorite movie?

Aria: I love independent movies and Japanese movies. I watched a movie recently called Strange Circus that was totally mindblowing.

CJ: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?

Aria: This is not so much wild or kinky but I thought it was pretty stupid after the fact. I was with this guy that I felt really comfortable with, we were really crazy together. I told him I wanted to do something weird. We had great sex but I wanted to do something to spice it up. And so we took that way too literally and bought some pop rocks and put them in me. (laughs) It was really horrible! I didn’t get a yeast infection, thank God. But it really hurt and it took a while to get them all out. Don’t try that at home! It doesn’t do as well as you think! (laughs) I also had an ice cube shoved up my ass while we were fucking and that was really, really cool. Also really cool. (laughs)

CJ: What does the future hold? Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Aria: I want to see how my porn career goes because I don’t want to stay past my welcome. I know a lot of people don’t get that many scenes anymore but they’re still kind of hanging in, that’s not something I ever want to do. I have a goal as to what I want to do in the future. If I can ride porn out for that long, hell yeah, I’m going to do it, I love it. But if I can’t, I just want to save up my money and open up a coffee shop back in Texas.

CJ: Any upcoming scenes that your fans can look forward to?

Aria: All of them! I try to put my heart and soul into everything!

CJ: And how can the fans get ahold of you?

Aria: On Twitter and Instagram, I’m @AriaAlexzilla I’m also thinking of opening a YouTube channel.

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